
This Christmas, my thoughts are less "Let It Snow" and a little more "Away in a Manger." I'm not wishing away the snow, and I'm not bah-humbugging the heart-warming, holiday traditions, nor am I cynical about the child-like excitement that comes from exchanging gifts.
It's just that my thoughts have been obsessed with the story surrounding the birth Jesus. "The tinsel and the lights are nice" and fitting, even, because He came to be the Light of the world. He brought Hope for lives filled with Joy and Peace where before we were simply lost in darkness.
But His Light didn't look like glossy Christmas presents and twinkling lights on fresh cut evergreens. It looked radically different -The story of Jesus' birth is messy, dirty, smelly and downright risque.
A girl winds up pregnant. Her boyfriend decides to marry her but swears they aren't sleeping together. No one is okay with this, and they are subsequently shunned by their families and dropped by all their friends. They road trip in a beater car across country, and when they get to their destination, no one will let them through the door, much less give them the guest room or even let them sleep on the couch. The girl ends up having the baby in a garage, using the dog's bed for a cradle.
That's the kind of story that changes the world? It's crazy. It's over-the-top, you've-got-to-be-kidding-me, just plain crazy.
Here's another crazy thought: What if she had had an abortion?
On second thought, that isn't so crazy. Women - and girls just like her - have abortions every day. In fact, given the circumstances, she was crazy not to. For heavens sake, she got booted out of her house and even ended up having her kid in a barn, amidst animals who poop on the floor and pee in the hay. Nasty. It was not like she was a nobody, another teenage pregnancy statistic from the ghetto. She was not well-to-do, but her prospects had been pretty good. She had a lot going for her. And her pregnancy wreaked havoc on all that.
Yet, without that child, the world would be lost.
And that is the Christmas story.
So while I belabor whether to replace our sofas with hay bales and forego the garlands and twinkling lights, I want to ask you to join me in celebrating Christmas a little differently this year. Join me in standing alongside women and girls who are unexpectedly pregnant, who are scared about the scandal and scared about what having a baby will do for their plans and prospects. Organizations like the Hope Pregnancy Resource Center in our town and other similar centers across the country set out to provide a supportive environment for these women. They are creating choices for pregnant women, by providing resources and a supportive network and counseling them through their decision to parent, adopt or abort their baby.
As you check off your holiday list, consider giving one more gift - the gift of Hope, hope in an unknown future for an unexpected child.
Make a donation by clicking here to visit my fundeasy.com page.
To learn more about the mission and ministry of Hope PRC; visit www.friendsofchoosehope.org.
Pregnant? Scared? Struggling with a past abortion? Know someone who is? You are not alone in this. Write me at athalia(at)littlecreeklife.com or visit www.choosehope.org.

